People objectify others with labels. This is old conditioning. They tend to LABEL others (with words like "mom" or "angel" or "dad" or "demon" or "black man" or "saint", etc., and worse)... Rather thanown their own feelings or express appreciation for someone's presence.
The Setting Sun Mentality: most people don't understand there are no absolutes, and all living beings are in process. Therefore, they tend to see and condemn things as black or white, good or bad, useful or disposable.