Friday, August 26, 2011

Wednesday, August 24, 2011


People objectify others with labels. This is old conditioning.

They tend to LABEL others (with words like "mom" or "angel" or "dad" or "demon" or "black man" or "saint", etc., and worse)... Rather than own their own feelings or express appreciation for someone's presence.

Condemnation: The Setting Sun Mentality

The Setting Sun Mentality: most people don't understand there are no absolutes, and all living beings are in process. Therefore, they tend to see and condemn things as black or white, good or bad, useful or disposable.


means no one needs to be "right",
when all people and situations are works in progress.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011


No Patriarchy.
No God. No Angels.
No Wings. No Harps.
No Pitchforks.


Saturday, August 20, 2011

Chakrasamvara & Consort

Chakrasmavara & Consort

Neutralizing and Dissolving All Illusions

Imminent Love & Transcendent Reality

Supreme Bliss

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Core Laws

We are all challenged
to find ways to RELAX
out of programmed conditioning
and feel our feelings...

If you can't feel the core of your feelings
and be accountable for what you feel?
You won't get what you want.
It is Law.

will always be met with
anger, defensiveness, resentment
and hatred.

Stay out of my anger.

No one needs to try
and control you here-
(not even with words like "GOD "
or "prayer").

Own your own feelings...
Don't trip me with fear;
by teaching me lies, or how to lie to you
because of your efforts to scare.

Be real...

(It is NOT OK to hang your shit on me.)

Sunday, August 14, 2011

A Woman's Nature to Nurture

It's in a woman's nature, and her essential need, to nurture... Whether she is young or not, married or not. We are creatures who need to feel our feelings and be powerful about it, deep inside. We know our powerful feelings generate energies and vibrations that help us feel good about ourselves. We know, when we cut ourselves off from our feelings at a deep level, the results are dis-ease and illness.

You cannot condemn a woman who has lived through such an experience, you will only earn her disrespect. And if she is a person of substance? She will consider herself to be a spiritual warrior, and will also fight back: but not in the need to confront, no, not ever. If she is a person of substance it will always be with the intention of restoring the balance of wellness. It goes against a woman's natural needs to create war.

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Nurturing verses Guilt

Punishing a child with "negative" consequences only reinforces guilt, shame, resentment, blame, anger and hatred.


Conversely: a child will have a better appreciation of "consequences" when they are used as a reward system... To validate and reinforce well-being, self-worth and joy.

A nurturing parent will teach a child that consequences are earned.

Those who use punishment as leverage to induce guilt or shame will only provoke more. Thus, such emotions become powerful tools of war.